Recently I posted a photo of us kissing LOL (Just smack though not the very intimate one) . Spiderman kiss which is pretty cool (Said the others). Unfortunatly, others tend to react on how irresponsible it is which is pretty normal though. Di din kasi nating maiwasan ang masamang commento sa isang kiss. Siguro di pa nila alam on how important hugs and kisses are in a relationship. Why? Chances are they haven’t been in a very long relationship to experience how naturally things flow in a relationship or perhaps they’re not being matured enough to know how things work in a relationship. Seriously, nakakita ka na bang relationships na walang first kiss or first hug bago marriage? Malamang wala. (Though ibang usapan na if you’re really young) And FYI I’m not comparing our relationship with others and surely I’m not following the protocol of having a kiss before marriage. Kiss happens randomly. You just go with the flow and know when the limit is. And even though sometimes relationship don’t last that long, it’s still not a reason to say it’s irresponsible. Remember, there’s a billion of “What if” that could happen in your current relationship. If you don’t take a leap of faith in a relationship, you’ll never find the “What if” that will make you happy for the rest of your life. And yes, it may be a mistake if you guys broke up but life is about mistake, you learn from it.(Just don’t make a fatal mistake though -_-).
A kiss with your partner, it’s about how open minded you are in those stuff, and not taking things negatively or randomly jumping into conclusion saying “OMFG they’re kissing! They’re soooo irresponsible” or wtf your conclusion would be. It’s pretty annoying knowingly that others emphasized on how injustice it is to be kissing someone you love.
Relationship is about being matured enough to handle what comes in the way(which obviously means Being responsible) and It is DEFINITELY NOT about coping with other people’s expectation in your relationship. Which in the definition defined, I’d say we handled our relationship at best.
To those who thinks it is soooo wrong to kiss your partner. Sorry I can’t really alter your perspective in these kind of stuff so all I could say is, sorry for being irresponsible in your perspective. And lastly to those being matured enough, Thank you.